chg: dev: Use release memory ordering when incrementing reference counter

As the relaxed memory ordering doesn't ensure any memory synchronization, it is possible that the increment will succeed even in the case when it should not - there is a race between atomic_fetch_sub(..., acq_rel) and atomic_fetch_add(..., relaxed). Only the result is consistent, but the previous value for both calls could be same when both calls are executed at the same time.