retain a minimal "methods" struct in the mctx

- this enables memory to be allocated and freed in dyndb modules
  when named is linked statically. when we standardize on libtool,
  this should become unnecessary.
- also, simplified the isc_mem_create/createx API by removing
  extra compatibility functions
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