Pause the dbiterator when dumping the zone to the disk (v9.16)

When we rewrote the zone dumping to use the separate threadpool, the dumping would acquire the read lock for the whole time the zone dumping process is dumping the zone.

When combined with incoming IXFR that tries to acquire the write lock on the same rwlock, we would end up blocking all the other readers.

In this commit, we pause the dbiterator every time we get next record and before start dumping it to the disk.

(cherry picked from commit 7e59b8a4)

Closes #2732 (closed)